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It's interesting
that our society in general has drifted into a type of value system,
based upon the monetary worth of an individual. We teach our kids to
be successful, to be wealthy. We work for their future, to send them
to higher education, to help them reach their goals - and ours. And
we worry that those who don't excel are somehow a debt on society.
Geneticists propose nowadays, the 'intervention' of new genes to
modify a generation to be more productive, more intelligent, more
moral, more normal than normal.
I spend summers with about forty developmentally disabled people at
camp with my son, Kit, who has Down Syndrome. Some of the campers
are in their fifties, some are teens. Some work in the kitchen,
fixing my meals; some help me at cleaning the pool each morning. All
of them come to camp to learn about themselves and to teach me
lessons no one else could.
Some worry when we talk, that they would never become 'valuable'
people - doctors, business people, teachers. I try to tell them that
value is an inside thing - who you are, rather than what you learn
to do, or how much money you earn.
I love being around the campers as well as the counselors every
camping week of summer. Many of the campers have shells to come out
of, or self-confidence and reliability to discover. But, the
counselors are a different story all together. They are immersed in
a group who knows no jealousy, who hold no animosity, no hatred, no
prejudices of color or age or all the things which so often make
someone popular or unpopular. These 'normal' counselors find
themselves confronted on every turn with smiling faces and
unconditional love and trust. I watch them grow in stature and
spirit, in compassion and grace and human kindness right before my
eyes.
I think the young counselors come to a special camp like this with
an open heart, and leave with a burden of love which sustains them
and defines them the rest of their lives. I expected Kit to build
strong bonds to his counselors, but I actually was surprised how
much I came to respect and love them myself. They simply learned to
reflect the nature of the campers, and made it part of themselves.
Maybe this is the real 'value' of such special people. Perhaps they
are the teachers and we only have to look within ourselves to find
the light they hold so near their surface and which we bury under
daily cares and pretense.
This is what we are about, what our goals are, what the Idaho
Special Camps Foundation is dedicated to. We want our special-needs
community in Idaho to have the opportunity of summer camp, and we
want our normal-needs communities to gain from their interaction
with us.
We now operate a small social/recreation center in a home in Nampa,
for a group of local special-needs individuals, where they can
gather, play games, share meals and laughter and just generally hang
out with friends. If you know of a special-needs person who would
like to join us, there is no charge and we'd love to have them. We'd
also love to have you - we need volunteers with help and
encouragement to make our dream come true. There's so much need here
and so much opportunity for us to accomplish something truly good
and lasting. Let's not let another special-needs kid or adult slip
through the cracks into a non-life of isolation, self-doubt and
despair. Let's not let another kid become a well-loved, but
invisible family heirloom. Let's build a legacy which will live
beyond us. Let's build a camp! |